Poker is a game that forces you to separate the known from the unknown, the controllable from the uncontrollable. It isn’t a great metaphor for life – you can’t get killed or go to jail playing it, and even the best players often lose large sums of money – but it does give you a chance to learn how to make better decisions in a way that almost nothing else can.
Getting to know your opponents is key. Even the strongest players have weak spots, so identifying these and exploiting them can be a big part of your success. For example, some people play very aggressively pre-flop, but they often lose to bad flops. On the other hand, there are some people who are very cautious and rarely call bets, but they win big by bluffing and making their opponents overthink their hands.
Once the hole cards are dealt, there’s a round of betting that begins with the 2 players to the left of the dealer. Then a 3rd card is dealt face up (called the flop). After the flop, you can decide whether to fold, raise or check. Generally, it’s a good idea to raise in order to price all the worse hands out of the pot.
One of the most important lessons that poker teaches is that there’s no such thing as a sure thing, and that you need to be willing to walk away from the table when your luck runs out. It’s a lesson that can be difficult to internalise outside of the poker room, but it can make you a better person in the end.